Romantasy with a gentle MMC?

Hi everyone! I just read the best book ever—Crown of Aster by Emmaline Strange! I know it was not an objectively "Good Book" in terms of sophistication or epic scope or what have you, but it healed my soul because the MMC was so gentle and never crossed the other MMC's boundaries. I'm looking for more books—any pairing is fine—where the male main character is not aggressiveor unkind to the other MC. I've not found any straight romances that fit this bill but if you have any, by all means! I love any type of fantasy! Some books I did NOT like were A Kingdom of Stars and Shadows, Powerless, and Whispers in the Dark. Also I hope this is the right sub, if not please feel free to redirect me. Thank you!!