My mil spiraled today because she saw my husband do the dishes

As a woman How Can you wish for another woman to not receive help and suffer under the patriarchy

As if it’s Not Bad enough that we live in the Same Building (we have separate Apartments but she demanded to have Access to our keys and Walk in anytime) she judges everything. As soon as she saw my husband or my brother in law who lives with us help me do the dishes or clean, she Starts yelling loud enough for me to hear. She tells them that what they are doing is embarassing and that they are not women

This Woman is out of her mind