44 [M4F] #Ohio. #Online. Take a swim with me?

I'm not for everyone, but maybe I'm for you! Here are 10 things about me to help you decide.

1. I'm a hopeless romantic. I like the idea of walking hand-in-hand along picket-fence lined historical homes, spending an evening playing games at the carnival, making our way to the beach where I build a fire and play guitar while you sing... and after, go for a skinny dip in the sea. OK, yeah, I'm probably an 80's romantic movie cliche. Take a swim with me?

2. I play music, but I don't consider myself a musician. I'm OK at guitar, serviceable at drums, and a hack on the harmonica. But hey, at least I know how to work my lips and tongue!

3. I can hold my end of the conversation. I'd like to find someone who is willing to do the same. I like being able to have lively, real-time back-and-forth.

4. I'm discreet, nonjudgmental, understanding, not looking to change your situation or mine. Many people say they feel like they can tell me anything (and boy, do they!). Your secrets are safe with me, should you choose to divulge them.

5. I'm on EST. My availability is early mornings though early afternoon, then typically early through late evenings. Weekends can be a little tougher, but I'm still around most mornings and evenings plus the occasional afternoon.

6. I have no expectations. I'm not demanding. I like to go with the flow. I'm here to explore new things and have fun. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I don't take myself too seriously.

7. I'm not overly concerned with body type or anything like that. I'm far more interested in your mind and emotional availability than how you look. Full transparency, I have a few extra pounds and broad shoulders (former wrestler), but I do go to the gym and jog (almost) daily. I do think my ideal OA partner is at least somewhat in the ballpark of my age, only because we probably have more life experiences and perspectives in common.

8. I want to hear about your hobbies and interests and passions. I want to get to know what moves you, what makes you feel alive. Weird, quirky questions? I might ask them. Feel free to do the same.

9. I'm rather kinky and lean heavily submissive, though I can switch. I'm interested in things like hotwifing, cuckolding, and CBT, and would like to explore them if we get to that point. I know those are not for everyone, but I figured it's best to be upfront and transparent so I don't waste anyone's time.

10. I'm not looking for multiple OA partners. Just one. But I'm not the jealous type and am completely fine with you having multiple partners (see #9 haha).

If you're still here and if I sound like a good fit, I'd love to hear from you! Send me a chat... or... take a swim with me?