Seeking Connection

Good morning, all. This is my first venture into seeking connection with a woman outside of my marriage. I’ve recently devoted time to self-reflecting on my life and how my happiness and overall life satisfaction have been negatively affected by my emotional and physical needs going unappreciated and unmet for years. I‘ve discussed my thoughts with my wife, but nothing has changed. Being new here, I don’t know how to find specific women to talk to, so any advice would be appreciated. Thank you and I hope everyone who reads this has a good day because your happiness matters.