Am I infp or infj?

So as much as I keep getting infj in tests and relate to some parts of it, like how much I mirror people’s feelings, how much I’m focused on the future, and how I bend my values for others comfort and how much I value social harmony.

But I also take things personally a lot, I’ve been told I have strong sense of self, and I use my experiences to back up my claims. Also I can be a bit blunt sometimes and unintentionally hurt people. Which all seem uncharacteristic to infjs.