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RedHeadRedeemed

How can I make being on top better?

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As a woman, I have never been a big fan of being on top. I have never found it to be very pleasurable.

However, my husband and I have recently tried it a few times and somehow with him it's DIFFERENT. It actually feels kind of good and making him cum that way makes me feel pleasure in a way I've never felt before. Like...powerful and sexy. But I still haven't cum from it myself, even though it feels nice.

I want to use this position more and find ways for me to enjoy it fully along with my husband. Any tips for how to improve the experience?

Posted Mar 5, 2026, 4:45 PM UTC

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