Anyone here now cant imagine dating someone who watches porn?

I 23f have always been watching porn and recently made an effort to stop (3 weeks in) because i dont want to worry about not being able to get aroused during intimacy. However, before quitting i had thought to myself its okay if i date someone who watches porn because i do so to. I would be a hypocrite for making them stop if i do myself. i also thought this was an addiction that was so hard to quit and even harder for men. However, after having gone now weeks without it im realizing that and any man that doesnt want to even take the EFFORT to quit is just a loser and i cant be with them. Especially if they carry discipline in other aspects of their life like fitness, work etc then they can have the discipline to want to quit. Im realizing now how gross porn actually is and the concept of watching other people to get off is quite literally an insane concept. Im not anti-masturbation but the need for porn to it is what im against.Its one thing to watch for education or a visual example of a new position you want to try but needing porn to be aroused is something i cant agree with anymore.