Married, sex and passion

Husband and I have been mired for 10 years. And have 3 kids. When we were young and started whew the passion was on fire. Now of course with all of the life changes and 3 little cock blockers lmao. It has become difficult to even have sex. And his current work schedule interferes since he works over night. It has started to feel like a chore and my husband just wants to bust a nut. He’s not romantic and not passionate at all and I’m sure I’m the same way. I’m sexually frustrated but 100% missing the passion as-well. How can I fix this?