Home selling /PCS issues

Hello. wondering if any active duty can relate.

Currently in the process of selling my condo. Spouse and I will be PCSing where the BAH is significantly lower than our current. Selling is THE option, finding someone to rent, not ideal since I cant even imagine even dual mil would rent what we pay in mortgage and hoa.

I’ve seen similar listings sit for months…

We’ll probably let the listing sit one month past our PRD, but after…

the thought of throwing money towards it only for someone to most likely come back with a low offer is high.

Has anyone done a dean in lieu of foreclosure? My Wife and I both have excellent over 800 credit scores…

I’m torn with ruining that or spending or having to payback the remaining 50k (could be more) if the offer on the home comes back low.

I’m willing to spend 20k tops out of pocket to wait past our PRD for an offer, but I do know it won’t meet what we owe.

Has anyone been in this situation?

What would you do or what have you done and what did the outcome look like?