54 [M4F] #Denver - Switching gears

I'm unattached, divorced 4 years, above average intelligence, emotionally fluent, oriented to curiosity vs control, comfortable with rejection, and fun. Safety, chemistry and connection are first. I'm cautiously confident of my safe traits, the others are discernible only in person, hence local please.

I've dated off/on the past 3 years, always women close in age, finding a recurrent theme of unavailability. Some are logistics: work or family; some are emotional: unresolved hurt. I choose empathy not judgment, but these are obstacles to exclusive LTR co-creation. So, I'm pivoting from that to intentional, kind, situationship feels more realistic.  No need to merge social lives, share multiple interests, finances or living arrangements yet we can have meaning and connection. This isn't about adding to your emotional load, its about lightening it; I am capable of being that fun friend with benefits on a schedule that is safe for vulnerability and certainty.

Must shares with me: employed, stable lifestyle, physically and mentally healthy, social, no substance abuse or criminal behavior.  I'm attracted to intelligence, feminine expression, active. Not the "plastic influencer", but demonstrable care of mental-physical-sexual health. I'm open to women between 25-55.

My history is selective, conscientious, regular testing, vasectomy and advance sharing.  I'm open and non-phobic to the way others love, flexible hetero-romantic, educated, always learning, adventurous, kink open. Principles: enthusiastic consent, care before-during-after, coercion destroys arousal, never anonymous. I'm 5'11 without heels LOL.

Denver only please. Pics are pinned to my Reddit profile.