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Hey so I (20) share a two story house with a (32) female. She recently left her toxic 4 year relationship (YAY), but has started smoking again. Before it was just socially now it's daily, I don't mind vape as it does smell or give me headaches or trigger my asthma. But she has recently started smoking inside and just opening a window. This is disturbing me because 1. I'm fasting (for Ramadan) and trying to stop vaping myself, 2. Getting headaches from the smell that's everywhere but my bedroom and toilet because I keep the doors closed 3. I know second hand smoke is bad for your health. Would I be the asshole if I ask her stop smoking inside because she's an adult I can't just tell her not to smoke. I could also ask her to smoke in her room with the door open and not to air it out with the door open because the smell carries and I think that's what she tried to do today.