Question for ADHD Muslims

Salam,

Question for you - do you believe traditional roles in marriage should be the default for a family system with at least one ADHD parent?

I believe it working would be the exception, but the rule should not be traditional. Once one person has ADHD the system should cater to adding support beams where executive dysfunction would have the most detrimental impact. Father as only source of financial income when the man has ADHD is detrimental, just as mother as only source for domestic labour and children would be detrimental when the woman has ADHD. I believe by default, a non traditional system where they are closer to full participation on both ends is the best default starting point.

What do you think?