About Me (the new/updated version)

There's much to say about me, but I'll keep to what feels relevant for this writing. I'm a young domme with a few years of experience in findom, and twice as many in the BDSM scene in general.

My tribute price is $25, and I expect that to be paid before any conversation will be had in my dms.

🌼 Vanilla Me 🌼

I am always seeking to further my education on sex and BDSM, as well as in the Vanilla world through videos, courses, and conversation. I am certified in several fields and am working toward another degree right now. Expanding my knowledge is a hobby for me, and I prefer to surround myself with people who are open-minded and well-educated.

I adore art and animals. I'm a very busy person, with much of my time going toward volunteering, hiking, working on arts and crafts, playing video games, outings, or reading. I am bisexual, and I have a girlfriend/pet that I intend to marry. I am open to having other subs, but she comes before anyone else.

• Note: She will generally not be discussed or involved at all in my return to findom unless she decides that she'd like to try her hand at it.

I enjoy talking about my hobbies, and tend to be very lighthearted/fun in my day-to-day life. I like to joke and laugh. I like going out and trying new things, and I find helping to better the world very fulfilling. Talk to me about things like Pokémon, Skyrim, volunteering, conservation, cats, tattoos, and poetry. I'm not always kinky. I love to send photos of my Vanilla life as well as random thoughts and updates. I love to talk. Keep me interested.

💫 The Not-So-Vanilla 💫

I consider myself a Mistress and an Owner. I like obedience, acts of devotion, giving tasks, and regular check-ins. I expect my submissive(s) to be available for regular conversation in addition to whatever attention I decide to grace them with, and expect any rules I set to be followed precisely. I can be sweet when I want to be, but I also thoroughly enjoy emotional and physical sadism.

I am faceless now. I've decided to change the way that I play due to my current profession. If you remember me from when I was active here before, you should savor that, because I'm much more reserved about what I share now.

While the way that I play is flexible, my main kinks/interests (within findom, obviously) are humiliation, cucking, CBT, symbols of ownership, denial, outfit control, contracts/agreements, forced bisexuality/crossdressing, chastity, impact play, pet play, objectification, and service-oriented submission. Aftercare and boundaries are something we MUST discuss, whether you want aftercare after sends/playing or not.

I'm less interested in draining sessions now than I used to be. I prefer more conversation and casual sending now, paired with teasing and tasks. I'd like something long term but am open to short term arrangements as well, since they scratch the findom itch just fine. I am not picky about body type, but I do have a preference for the fit and successful. It makes their submission more pathetic to me. I enjoy having control over one's day-to-day activities/decisions and pushing people to better themselves, so anyone looking to submit to me must be willing to surrender control where I desire it and improve where + how I want them to.

I prefer to be referred to as Miss, Mistress, Ma'am, Boss, Princess, or My Lady/My Lord.