Some FTM’s are unbearable & so overconfident

Of course I have been a FTM however when I was pregnant the first time I had HG for the entire pregnancy & lost 20kg & was just trying to survive so I didn’t have the mental capacity to even decide how I wanted to parent.

Whenever I had the energy I would ask other parents for advice, I’m the eldest of 3 significantly younger sisters so I took on a parental role but I still didn’t think I knew or was confident enough to be like yes I’m going to ace this parenting thing.

My friend is currently pregnant at the same time as me (im on my second pregnancy only had HG in first trimester 😍) shes going to be a FTM and she’s insufferable my goodness. She thinks that cause she has looked after her nephew a few times when he was a newborn she knows exactly how to raise a kid. She asls my for advice and then she will refute what I say with stories of how her nephew is? Loooool tbh I have stopped answering her questions and just started saying that you will find your feet once baby comes because its true you do. But my god I never knew how insane people could be as FTM’s! The back and forth is crazy & asking ques just to try to disprove what your saying even though every child is different and every parent is different is crazy to me