I don’t want to share my bay with anyone but my family and husband.

I went through a great deal of struggles before I had my baby girl. 4 miscarriages, failed fertility treatments for years , failed ivf cycles.

I finally had my baby last august. She’s everything I’ve dreamt of and more. Sometimes I lie awake starting at her not believing she’s real and she mine.

When I brought her home I kept thinking something bad about as going to happen and I’d somehow lose her. Even though she’s perfectly healthy.

My in laws are a bit much never really had a relationship with them but they’re very obsessive over here. My family and my husband obviously knew all the struggles I went through to have a baby.

I just keep feeling that in laws have no right to be a part of her life because they have no idea how hard it was for me they keep crossing boundaries and I fear they don’t care if my baby gets sick. Because they’ll do things like be around sick ppl and want to visit after or lie to us about being sick.

I just don’t want them to be a part of her life and I think I huge part of it is because of my anxiety that they won’t understand but my family understands.

Please let me it is normal to feel this way