Changes in LDR my bf ‘22 M’ and I ‘22 F’ help me navigate this?

Two parties are involved 22 M and 22 F

My bf ‘22 M’and I’22 F’ are together for almost 3 years now. When we lived close to each other, i always loved him and we used to be spicy a lot together but now when I went to home for exam prep where my whole family lives, I just dont feel like doing it. Its been 8-9 months of LDR and we met once and that time we did get spicy and I liked it. But doing things online I just dont feel horny or I never initiate.

He feels shit about himself whenever he asks for it and I say no. I just don’t want to fake things with him and that’s why I never indulge when I don’t feel like it. We have done things online a lot of times, but he is the one who initiates and I just agree to it and not like I really wanted to do it.

When we used to go long distance temporarily( due to college break), I also used to be excited for it because we were doing those things for the first time. But things have changed a lot. I feel less attracted to him and talking naughty with him feels very uncomfortable and cringe.

Please tell me what to do