In order to get a woman, you need to be carzier than she is in her passions (I am 24M)

In order to get a woman, you have to be better than her in the thing she values. If she values a kind character, she can make billions while you are poor, but the character will matter if you go the extra mile, take care of her and others, can speak kindly even when mad, etc. If she values money, you being poor won’t help much, and there is not much you can do, except to outpace her earnings and the ones she dreams about. On the other hand, if she values a bad boy, you could go and steal someone's wallet, impress her, and get your next meal all at the same time. If you are kind in this case... well, you are fucked.

But my thesis/idea is that once you figure out the passion/values/character of the woman, if you double down on them, she will fall in love. -> But no matter what those are, she looks for a man that is better than her in those (Even nerd couples - the man is always the very nerdy dude who just knows one specific thing so well you are either impressed or worried).

What is your opinion?