My (26 F) BF (27 M) might be lying and distancing himself from me.
So my (26 F) BF (27 M) and I have been together for 6 months. Recently, I feel like he’s been distancing himself from me, and I can’t tell if that’s true or if I’m overthinking things.
In the beginning of our relationships, we would text and talk all the time. We still do text multiple times a day, but he’ll spend hours at a time not talking to me. What makes me the most nervous is when it says “Active Now” on his Instagram use but he still doesn’t reply to my text or takes a day to open what I sent him on Instagram. Last week, he didn’t send me a goodnight text like he normally does bc he said that he fell asleep, but his active status was on for several hours.
He does that a lot and idk what to do. We still hang out multiple times a month (at least 5-6 times), but I can’t tell if I’m overthinking things or not. He’s still affectionate w me in person, but he used to talk more about our plans for the future before than he does now. He only brings it up like once a week now, whereas before he would multiple times a week.
Also, I just wanted to add that he showed me his Snapchat the other day and told me he doesn’t use Snap anymore, which looked to be true. But I tracked his Snapscore the other day for two and a half days (I shouldn’t have but did) and his score went up three point points, even though when he showed me his Snap, he hadn’t talked to anyone on there for weeks! Am I reading too much into this?
TL;DR my (26 F) BF (27 M) is acting differently and I can’t tell if he’s distancing himself or not
Posted Mar 5, 2026, 7:54 PM UTC