True or false: “when he tells you what you want, he tells you what he wants”?

True or false: “when he tells you what you want, he tells you what he wants”

Ex. Ive been sleeping with this one guy. Man i like having sex its a boost to productivity i need right now- problem is, sleeping around does noooot work for me. So once it ends with this guy, i aint having sex for a while. However, its casual but he will tell me i want something more and he cant give me that, ill be like huh no? Are you trying to say you don’t wanna hu cause thats ok no hard feelings (ouch tho oof). But he’ll very clearly state that no, he reeeally finds me attractive and likes having sex with me. 🤨 Ive never shown i wanted a serious relationship. Even stated, i only want that with woman but i got no job rn which means i cant date for a relationship (women have high standards i got to meet). Plus we both going to different state in 3 months. But he constantly thinks ‘he leading me on’ that i want something more, when i want to see him often (sex) or if i tell him to let me know ahead of time if plans (sex) is canceled just out of respect (and so i dont waste pineapplejuice, have to shave, i dont tell him that tho lol). So i dont get it. :/ And honestly the change in treatment toward me actually hurts, i thought we had a nice respectful thing going, but i dont want to have sex with someone who sees me as nothing the whole time… thats what it feels like at least the more he pulls away. I dont tell him that though, because he’ll think its too serious i think. But its like, no matter what i say or do, im not showing im being led on or that i want anything more! But hes just been more on that recently thecloser timegets to us parting.

Is it true that when a man tells you how you feel its actually how he feels? I dont say anything romantic, i dont ask for much, i started chaging my text language from respectful to like want to hookup because im too scared he’ll think want to hang out is serious.

So is that why he’s acting like that? Or says that stuff? Cause then id tell him… DONT TREAT A WOMAN YOU LIKE LIKE THA DUMB ASS only cause i want to be with a woman and am just like id be on my knees. So fast for the opportunity. Also i think hes gay or bi, i kinda look like a fem boy. Andwe are kinda in 2 different worlds idfk

It only recently started being like this. It was less tense the beginning months. Sex was fire, still is for him at least. Now i fear no matter the truth i show or say he just thinks im falling in love with him :/ im 2 yr younger btw, we in our 20’s

Im j curious :p im guessing he probs just losing interest but damn bruh