My wife has never had any sexual experience with anyone other than me. If she wants it, I would be supportive as long as we set boundaries. What’s the best way to approach this conversation without her thinking it’s weird or some sort of a trap?
My wife (F29) and I (M28) have been together since high school and married for 5 years now. I have previous sexual experience from before we even started dating in high school, but she does not. Sometimes i feel bad that she has not ever gotten to experience anything else besides me, and would be supportive (with boundaries set) if she wanted to, no strings attached as far as me having a hall pass or whatever else it might sound like. I’m concerned that if i bring it up she’s going to think I’m trying to get something out of it, or did something and feel guilty about it, or just think it’s plain weird. So, is this something that women would even think about or would typically want? If so, how do i bring this up without her thinking it’s some sort of weird trap or hidden agenda? I genuinely just love her so much that i want to make sure she feels fulfilled in life and doesn’t have any regrets as we age.
Posted Mar 5, 2026, 7:56 PM UTC