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JayH46

Now I’m certain I’m with another BPD

Tuesday we agreed for me to go over . I said I’d be there at 7pm and I’d be busy until then getting football boots for my daughter after work . 630 pm I get a text off her saying’I’m going to assume from your lack of communication you aren’t coming’. Turned in to a fight and I didn’t go over.

Yesterday she didn’t message me all day. I just did same back. She then messages me at 9pm raging about me not reaching out… I said why would I reach out when you caused the issues

Today the onslaught has begun. You have never …

Complimented me

Appreciated me

Done anything for me

Had any interest in me or my son

You don’t put enough effort in to this relationship

I deserve better

And so on

I said fine. If I’m not appreciated then no problem

More rage. You should want to change and put more effort in . If you loved me you’d look at reassuring me

Then the instagram pouting thirst trap minutes later. I called her out on this last time around a week ago. She clearly thinks this will push my buttons again. Random male orbiters liking it. Sick bucket stuff

And then to add insult to injury… her message minutes after posting ‘when are you going to delete me then?’

Fml… how do I keep attracting these people

I’m tempted to remain silent and then do exactly that, delete and move on. The good thing is we are only 3 months in and she showed her colours early unlike my last 5 year drama fest.

Posted Mar 5, 2026, 7:57 PM UTC

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