How can I fix my attraction patterns?

Now that I’m working to reaffirm myself as straight, I need to really find a means to deprogram myself off my previous attractions. I (shamefully) had sapphic-coded attractions and was a predator who kept forming feelings for women who design themselves specifically to deter the male gaze.

I want to have the ability to get feelings for women who actually want men to notice them. I’m kinda there loosely, I find cute, sensitive girls endearing and nice to talk with, but I don’t feel anything romantic or sexual at all and I’m not sure how I can get my brain to do that.