A little advice

So in my ita it speaks of one day me having to rely on my partner and their oricha alagbatori during a time of great crisis. I have been to the foot of caracol as well, and as well as the feet of orula, and been told the same thing when I’ve asked for clarity. That I should find a partner in the religion as it might make things flow easier in the future. I’m getting scratched soon, and it also came up with a reading with my Tata about my partner not practicing, same thing in misas. These are separate houses so there’s no chance it’s like a scheme or anything, and while I have no major strain in my relationship, I do feel sort of disconnected with my partner. I was wondering if anyone else has gone through this and how did you remedy it?