31 [M4F]/[M4A] Newly realized caged sub looking for a gentle domme and potential keyholder #online

Hi! I'm a 31 year old man who has recently started exploring my submissive side.

I am looking for an online gentle domme to help me explore this side of me. They can be experienced to guide me, or inexperienced and wanting to explore just like I am. If they want to, we can consider whether they would want to be an online keyholder to my cage over time. Looking for long term online to build a connection, while still being free-spirited.

Prefer female domme, but can also be male

Most of the women i've dated have wanted to be submissive, so I have naturally taken a more dominant role (in a light sense, not BDSM) throughout my dating life. However, over time I have realized that I prefer being submissive, I just haven't experience what that would feel like.

I got my first chastity cage last week, and have been trying on different sizes and getting used to it. I love the expectations that builds when I can't touch myself or achieve release. I want to keep exploring this where somebody is in control of my key, where their pleasure comes before mine. Where me getting unlocked comes at their terms, not on my own.

About me - I am 180 cm tall, muscular but slightly chubby. I like going out with friends, but also enjoy staying in playing video games and watching tv and anime.

Introverted until you get to know me, i prefer having a few close friends to having many people i'm semi-familiar with.

Kinks include but is not limited to:

\- Chastity

\- Light/gentle femdom

\- Cuckolding/hotwifing

\- Bicurious (big cocks)

\- Anal play/pegging (gentle)

\- Light play with hypno/feminization

Limits:

\- Ageplay

\- Scat

\- Gore

\- Vore

\- Beastiality

\- Findom

\- Extreme pain

Feel free to DM me if this sounds like something you'd be interested in.