M | 27 | Khi - Trying to become the right partner while seeking one.

Salam! Me samajhta ho marriage in Islam is about becoming garments for one another, as Allah describes in the Quran, protecting, supporting, and bringing comfort to each other through all seasons of life. So, hope to bring love, respect, loyalty, n the willingness to compromise, as they say if you want the rainbow then you better be prepared for the rain. For me, the purpose of marriage is to complete half of the deen, grow together financially and spiritually, and support each other while covering each other's shortcomings with kindness and patience.

I really find it fascinating how small moments can shape our lives. The fact that I was introduced to Reddit, created an account here, came across this community, n finally decided to make this post feels like one of those moments. Life is shaped by the choices we make, n Alhamdulillah, Allah always knows what is best for us.

So, let's start the bio part without further ado.

Height & Weight: 5'11", approximately 65 kg Location: Karachi / Kolachi / Krokola/ Barbarikon. I’m grateful to Allah for how He created me. Kiun k Usne jesa chaha mujhe wese banaya, so how can I not be handsome 😄.

Accommodation: Currently living with family in our own home. I am actively working toward getting my own place within the next 1–3 years. My goal is to build a peaceful home where my wife and children feel secure, respected, and supported in pursuing their goals. As for the future, I remain open to opportunities. Whether it is moving to a different city or even abroad, I believe we plan and strive, but ultimately leave the outcome to Allah.

Education: Studied Digital Forensics & Cyber Security (DFCS). Planning to pursue a Master’s degree in the future, In Sha Allah. I also memorized the Qur’an at the age of 12 and studied Dars-e-Nizami (Alim course) for some time.

Income Source: Working as a Product Experience Analyst at a US-based telecom company. I have also worked in different domains throughout my professional journey, including coding, project management, and sales. I believe in building multiple sources of income and am currently involved in exploring passive income streams, freelancing, and potential startup ideas. My goal is to provide a stable and comfortable life for my future family, while putting my trust in Allah.

Marital Status: Single, never engaged or anything Ha Al Batta in a complicated relationship with Biryani, but one sided he sadly (Yuk Tarfa Mohabbat🥲).

Religion & Short Details About How Practicing You Are: I try my best to pray regularly, fast in Ramadan, and continue learning the Qur’an, Hadith, and Fiqh. I also try to observe some voluntary fasts too. I attempt to apply Islamic values in everyday life, whether in dealing with people or earning halal income. Sometimes I reflect on how the Prophet ﷺ would handle certain situations. I am far from perfect and have many shortcomings, but I am trying to grow and become better with time. To put into words, I've yet to become the man I want to be, but I'm far from the man I once was.

Hobbies & Interests: As said in Stoicism "The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing, the more I know the more I realize I know nothing" I'm always eager to learn everything, like a curious soul! I like to dive into various languages, philosophy, history and culture. My goal is to at least speak five global languages fluently. Currently, I speak English and Urdu fluently and have basic proficiency in German and Arabic. I like to travel, meet new people, learn their cultures, wanna explore the world or at least some famous places with my future wife, that'll be 'Us Time'. I'm a foodie, love biryani n always eager to give new cuisines a try. A bathroom singer and a part-time poet, I can sing something for you whenever you're sad to cheer you up or maybe to annoy you, not that bad at singing though 😁.

Family Details: We are a respectable middle-class family based in Karachi. My father is a retired journalist who is currently involved in building and construction work. He's the most chilled guy! My mother is a housewife, the strongest in our family. I have one elder brother (married) working in a private firm and two elder sisters who are married. I am the youngest in the family, the only unmarried one 🙃. Family holds a special place in my heart so I'd go to any length to make my loved ones happy, because their smile makes my day.

Requirements for a Partner: Well, looking for a respectful n sincere partner in twenties (21-30) who values honesty, communication, and family. Someone who understands the importance of supporting each other and growing together in life. Good character and religious values matter to me. Hope to find someone with whom I can pray together, grow closer to Allah, n build a peaceful home and eventually grow old together. It's my wish to find not only a life partner but also a best friend with whom I can share my thoughts, emotions, go for long drives, and explore the world to spend 'us time' forever. Someone who'd walk alongside me, supporting each other through life's journey. You would find me super supportive of all your plans after marriage within the limits of Shariah.

Deal Breakers: Disrespect n unwillingness to communicate. I believe communication resolves most issues in a relationship. When you genuinely value someone, u focus on their strengths and work through imperfections together with mutual efforts.

Preferred Family Setup: Initially joint family, but I fully respect that separate accommodation is the shareek e hayat's right in Islam. If she prefers to live separately right off the bat, I will arrange that.

Do You Want Children?: Yes, In Sha Allah. I would love to have a daughter first since daughters are a great blessing (Ek khuwahish h bus). However, I would be equally happy and grateful if Allah blesses us with a son. Ultimately, children are Allah’s decree and such matters will always be approached with gratitude and mutual understanding between us..

Timeframe for Marriage: Within 8–15 months if compatibility is established and decided mutually.

Whether we end up connecting or not, I sincerely wish you the best in finding the right partner. Just remember that this life is not always sunshine and rainbows q k har zawal ka urooj he or urooj ka zawal, and the greatest enjoyment in it is a righteous spouse, as mentioned in the Hadith. So take your time and choose wisely, because the person you marry can shape the course of your life.

May Allah rewards you for your time. Take care