I dislike the term “ascend”

This term feels like simping to an extent. What does a woman need to do to get you to ascend? Spread her legs and let you fuck her hole? Even if you consider ascending to be a relationship, it’s still just her agreeing to go out with you. It’s no big deal on her side and she probably will do it numerous times throughout her life. It feels like you’re putting pussy and women on a pedestal by acting like finally getting to fuck is this form of nirvana. Sure, it’s great to escape inceldom, and I get the term is somewhat of a joke and not meant to be taken 100% literally, but I just find the term kind of cringe and only reluctantly use it as there’s little in terms of a true alternative.

Furthermore, the term ascend has this aura of finality to it. Like what happens if you get cheated on or dumped? Do you descend? If the relationship doesn’t last you don’t magically become Chad because you ascended, you could still have to wait months if not years for your next chance. There’s still a ton of blackpilling experiences that can await you after so called ascension such as dead bedrooms, beta buxxing, open relationships and so on. I feel like “ascending” is only half the battle.

As far as normies are concerned, getting a partner is the easy part, the actual relationship and the problems that can arise from that is the hard part. We just happened to be born in a life that makes the initiation way harder, but those same problems are still awaiting us. Probably even more so since we’re already undesirable anyway.