I’m very insecure about the size of my penis

I’ve been dealing with a lot of insecurity about my penis size and I’m hoping to get some honest perspectives. I’m around 4 inches and it’s something that’s been in the back of my mind for a long time.

I know logically that there’s more to intimacy than size, but it’s hard not to compare yourself to what you see online or hear in jokes. It sometimes makes me feel like I won’t be good enough for a partner, and that has definitely affected my confidence when it comes to dating and sex.

I think a big part of the anxiety is just not knowing what women actually think. Guys talk about size a lot, but I rarely hear honest opinions from women about it.

For women: would 4 inches actually be a dealbreaker for you, or is it something that matters less than guys think? What really matters most to you when it comes to intimacy?

And for other guys who have struggled with this kind of insecurity, how did you get out of your head about it?