Secret relationship with Girlfriend

m 17, my girlfriend is 16, weve been dating for around 4 months, shes amazing and i love her so much, she has brutally strict parents, one month into our relationship she told her parents who then spent a whole week emotionally guilt tripping her about how its going to ruin her life, she then lied about breaking up with me, i dont mind going on secret dates and such but ive never been to her house, i cant post her, we are both constantly in fear of getting caught by her parents, and we cant do nearly as much fun stuff as other couples around us, and please do not say “just break up with her” because that doesnt help