Ladies what is like to have hobbies and interest that you can freely pursue while never having to worry about dating or attracting a man. Must be nice to have that flexibility

As man if I were to solely pursue hobbies, especially those that are not mainstream and put time and effort into said hobbies, then i'll be sacrificing my efforts when it comes to dating.

It's so sad that I have to choose between my hobbies or dating. I wish I could just do both.