How to freestyle in Philly

So I’ve been having a little trouble with finding an SD in my area. New York is right there and that’s where a lot of them seem to be. My last SD dumped me out of nowhere and I kinda gave up on looking for a while.

I’m trying to get back into the scene and seeking is rough. I freestyling once and met a guy but he wasn’t really into the whole sugar dating thing. I think I brought it up in a weird way, but he also definitely wasn’t that type of generous.

You guys have any tips on where to go. And how to talk to them about it without seeming too forward?