Also in fionna and cake, what do you think finn should've done in the first place that would easily avoid almost death especially about jake and his traumatic events?

What i meant is, finn as a full Adult in fionna and cake was feeling deep down depressed since Jake's death years ago but happy in his own time! When I started watching the simon episode when finn actually returned since obsidian, he started mentioning jake and did help his friend simon he did started feeling upset, but he said hey now talking about sad stuff gets you nowhere forget about it.. I'm kinda thinking if finn didn't not want to talk about his grief with Jake plus other events to his friends and his true gf I guess he could've went to get some therapy help or something.. but his situation is adventuring and that's it