How am I supposed to find a gf when I am constantly rejected from jobs?

Even women with the lowest standards usually say ”oh I wouldn’t mind him being this and that, all he has to be is nice and have a job”. Well appearently I cannot get a job for 4 years now!! So what now? I thought I won’t try to pursue women until I get a job because I suspected being rejected all the time by women would destroy my low self confidence more. But I am almost 30 by now and no jobs, this also destroyed my barely existing confidence anyway. So much for doing useless university degrees when you are excluded unless you have connections to get you in.

Meanwhile everything is going bad, now I have malicious neighbours who intentionally blast their songs after asking them not to, despite my heavy social anxiety. This should be a big achivement for me, but ofc it was no use again, people are assholes to me for no reason as usual. I can’t even sleep or do anything anymore without being annoyed.

Same with having adhd and avpd but people saying you just gotta go out there, so I do that, only for me to feel like shit and people ignoring me as expected. I’m tired of people and tired of trying.