Cursed by north node, chiron and vesta placements

All three placements on my chart are in Gemini, and it’s no coincidence that I am constantly falling for people either with Sun, or Venus in that sign. I never fall for moon in Gemini, or other placements. It’s very strange because at this point I have a history of feeling magnetized to people with those placements.

Problem as always with being a scorpio, is a I fixate on these people who do always like me back, but they change on a dime, and leave me high and dry.

It’s almost tormenting when I fall for a Gemini, because I already know how it’s gonna play out. Anyone also noticed how these NN, chiron and vesta placements in non compatible signs, are the bane of one’s existence?