29 [M4F] #Germany #Online - Looking for my neurodivergent people

I'm 29, been in the BDSM for quite some time, and have ADHD (diagnosed) as well as most likely ASD (will stay undiagnosed for work reasons). I noticed that especially ND people tend to gather in the BDSM scene, and since I'm part of that crowd, I thought "Why not just be open about it?". We're naturally clicking better with each other than with normal people and we don't need to ask for clarity since it always comes naturally.

That itself might not be a kink but... let's real here. ADHD craves novelty, ASD craves weirdly specific things. So what good does it even do hardcoding kinks when they switch and evolve on the go. What I offer is more like a "partner in crime" thing. Casual to keep the pressure at bay and making it easier to open up & conversationally fluid to seamlessly switch between smalltalk and kinky talk.

If you hit me up with a full fledged blueprint of your own kinks and no-gos? Cool. Testing the waters with casual chat first? Sure, take your time. Yesterday felt like subbing, today wanna try what domming is like? I'm down. Suddenly opting out because anxiety is a bitch? No hard feelings from my side. You can still drop in my DMs anytime, even if it's just to shittalk.

Sure, it's vague and a bit missing a direction but that approach received more positive feedback than any "this is how it will go down" so far, and it allows both sides to tailor the experience to their preferences. And if you don't have preferences and just like being commanded, that's also okay.

...or just throw me a meme you enjoyed that you got nobody to share it with 乁(⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)ㄏ