Blocking My Paypig
I found out about findom a year ago. Before that, I believe I was engaging in it but didn’t know there was a name for it. You get the occasional dm on instagram from a guy asking to send money — me, thinking it was too good to be true said “what the heck” and sent him my number to apply pay me. Lo and behold, he actually sent me money. I enjoyed the feeling for a time but I’ve been feeling terrible as time has passed and he keeps sending me funds. He has a wife and children and I’m just a young woman without any major bills. I’ve blocked him on social media and my phone and he still makes new accounts to send tributes on different platforms. How can I get him to understand that he’s in an unhealthy place and needs to focus on his life and family?
I’m not sure I want to be part of this lifestyle anymore, seeing how it’s been affecting him and his family.
Posted Mar 6, 2026, 3:45 PM UTC