US NRI bondhas, Is the AM market as fucked up as people say it is ? (From a male perspective)

Like abbayi ki h1b, I-140 and minimum 200k salary undali ani?

Intiki down-payment antaru kani, I believe its stupid to buy an expensive house young, you'll just be house poor.

Ik edho comedy ga antaru kani, nizamgane expect chestara? I've heard people judging the car he drives too

Savings entha undali pelli chesukovali anthe?

Ik its not supposed to be all about money, ik people are going to say shit like Koncham Samskaram in the comments but thats how people are in the AM market ani vinnanu. I also personally believe that its important but its definitely not everything.

Men who actually met these conditions and married someone. Are you actually happy or was this something out of being in perpetual karuvu?