What do men REALLY think about women who lift heavy(er than them)?

I started lifting very heavy a few years ago after being in a relationship with a powerlifter. He was my gateway into that world, and I ended up loving how strong and healthy it made me feel. Before that, I was always very skinny and petite.

Since getting stronger and building more muscle, though, I’ve noticed people — especially men — treating me differently. A few men have even asked me, “Why are you training so hard?”

So now I’m curious. What actually goes through a man’s mind when he sees a woman who can lift as much as, or even more than, he can? Do you find women like that intimidating or unapproachable? Or does it trigger any kind of negative reaction?

Genuinely interested in hearing honest perspectives.