Complicated last name after marriage: your thoughts on hyphenating socially vs legally vs not at all in my case?

I'm (28F) getting married later this year to my wonderful fiancée (28F). Before being with her I never really thought about marriage, never thought about changing my name really, but here we are.

Skip to the end for my specific questions if you don't care too much for background!

My family name is pretty long because it's both of my parents' names hyphenated, which I love. My first last name is quite complicated to spell and rare, even in my homecountry, let's say it's Frugtbredge. My second last name is from the parent I'm closest to emotionally, but it's also way more common, kinda generic, think Pfeiffer. So in this example my current last name is Frugtbredge-Pfeiffer; and I'm the only person in the world with that name. If you google me, I have excellent SEO lol, and anything I've ever been involved in is the first two pages of Google Results

I now live in Canada, and my name clearly identifies me as an immigrant, which I don't mind, I live in an environment where that's not an issue. But people definitely get scared of how to pronounce my name when they see it in writing, no one can say it correctly, it looks long and frightening apparently. On the other hand, my partner's last name is very typical in North America, think Evans.

Now we're getting married, and I like the idea of sharing a family name to reflect us being a family. However, we're both quite attached to our names, and we also don't really feel like doing a ton of paperwork and then risk things not matching in the mean time... My partner is also a scientist and has publications with her name Evans on them.

Based on this, neither of us wants to fully change their name, but I'm considering hyphenating to kinda have my wife's family name attached to mine. Because it's a little more common, boring, and also more my second last name, I am considering dropping Pfeiffer, and becoming Frugtbredge-Evans, at least socially because I'm not sure I want to redo all my paperwork

So here come my questions and where I would love to hear other people's perspectives:

1- If you've changed name socially but not legally, especially with hyphenation, has it caused any issues? Are employers, landlords, and such understanding of the discrepancy of name between say your email signature/resume and your ID?

2- Do you think it's silly to keep the rare complicated name instead of the easy one when hyphenating? I take some weird pride in it but I don't know if it makes a lot of sense.

3- If you have hyphenated your name and one of your names is easier to pronounce than the other, do people default to calling you the easier name of the two? I don't really want people to default to calling me just Evans, unless it's in a situation where I'm my wife's plus one.

Any thoughts/advice/personal experience is very welcome!