How to feel confident in your attractiveness when you have facial defects ?
السلام عليكم. M24 planning to get married soon IA. Alhamdulliah I was born a healthy boy but at 17 , I got a serous infection around my eyes where my eyes were extremely inflamed and swollen and had irregular bumps . I did many treatments and had multiple surgeries to try at fix it - but currently am left with eyes that look deformed and not natural.almost like a cartoon character 😅
Alhamdulliah I am capable in other things , as in I’m healthy in other parts of my body , go to gym, groom myself properly , no receding hairline , dress decently and non looks things like decent financial condition. It’s just my face that looks off. Unfortunately it will not go away altough I make Dua for it everyday
Ever since 17 I’ve been extremely insecure of my face and always hoped it would go after each surgery. I’m planning to get married but lack confidence in my attractiveness and genuinely don’t think someone would find me attractive
Sometimes I’ve thought about not caring and that I’ll get a handsome face in jannah ; but at the same time also have desire for marriage (physical desires , kids etc) Any tips ?
Posted Mar 6, 2026, 3:54 PM UTC