Ex wanted to look at our memories only to leave me hanging Aio?

Long story short we went out and she was telling me about how she went to look for our old memories but forgot she deleted them. She then tells me she kept a romantic drawing I made for her and a necklace I kept a heart with her birth stone which she keeps hanging on her review mirror. The necklace I saw but who knows if she actually kept my drawing. She said she wanted to look at what I have. Went to my car and looked at all our stuff.

Then that was really it there a few videos and pics she would look at for longer duration but mostly swiping through the rest of them. She didn’t really say much about them. She asked me to send the ones of me and her kids together. Drop her off to her car after a long hug she then tells me besties. I was bummed out, honestly disappointed. Later on after a mild argument I asked her why did you even want to look at our memories?

Her response was just to see what I have. I didn’t have a response at the time. I even said how I missed being the closest thing I had to a family doing all these activities with her kids. She told me you’re talking about things that happened so long ago. My response was you’re the one that wanted to go down memory lane you’re the one that brings up all this stuff over the past 4 years since we’ve been apart. It honestly made me feel erased almost as if she’s discrediting me for being there for her kids. As if none of it ever happened.

2 weeks later I just told her it’s fucked up to tell me all these things yet never deliver on them. How I kept our memories because I loved her deeply. I told her they’re not collectibles like funkos or some shit. They are memories of someone who means a lot to me. I asked who the fuck even does that with their ex? Go look at memories together.

Never got a response.

I honestly don’t understand why even tell me you kept a few items from an ex (me) if they mean absolutely nothing to her? But who knows if that’s even true. Or to tell me she went looking for our memories only to remember she deleted them. Why even bring it up????

I just feel it’s fucked up to even look at our stuff together, to tell me all these things only to leave me hanging. It’s not the first time she’s left me hanging.