Am I overreacting? Sisters boyfriend come onto to me last night (I think)
Last night we had a family gathering for my Mother’s birthday and there was a lot of alcohol consumed. We were all having a great time. My sister and her boyfriend have been going through a rocky time but they’re getting married in April. I’ve know this guy since we were 8. So I went into the kitchen and he was in there. I was making a drink on the counter and he gone up behind me and put his arms around me and started trying to kiss my neck. I turned around and said WYF! Get off me. He said “oh no I thought you were your sister”. I just left the kitchen without saying another word and shortly after that got an uber home.
The thing is me and my sister looks nothing alike. I look like my dad and she looks like my mother. She’s got platinum blonde hair and mine is very dark brown. I have felt weird vibes on and off from him for years and as I said my sister and him are having a rocky patch at the moment but nothing too serious as they’re still getting married.
Am I over reacting? I’m 5ft dead on and she’s 5ft 7 too. I just don’t see how he thought I was her.
I really don’t know what to do. I don’t want my sister marrying a sleaze but what if he really did mistake me for my sister? It would ruin their relationship and my friendship with him is now gone completely imo
Posted Mar 6, 2026, 5:36 PM UTC