List of my standards in women's, does this standards helps select a better partner?

I was talking to some friends of mine, they said they just want a girl, no personality no need no standards, I was shocked, then I told them they should have standards because they are driven by just lust

So I will list some of my preference (which can be comprised) and some very fundamental things (which cannot be comprised)

1. She should not be an pseudo feminist, and just one thing I want from her that is, she is not an active member of a specific sub in reddit.

2. I’ve lived my life with a relaxed and easygoing mindset. I’d want someone who can joke around, laugh easily, and not take every small thing too seriously.

3. I train regularly, gym and boxing and I take my health and diet seriously. Ideally, she would also care about fitness and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

4. I’m very career oriented, so I’m attracted to someone who also has goals, works toward her future, and takes her ambitions seriously.

5. I’m someone with a high libido and I’m open about that. I have certain preferences and several kinks that are important to me in a relationship

6. Good communication matters a lot to me. I value someone who can express her thoughts clearly but also respects personal space when either of us needs it.

7. She should not be an insecure fool, like I have female best friends and sometimes go out dancing or clubbing with them. I’d want a partner who trusts me and doesn’t feel constantly threatened by that.

8. If I’m doing something wrong, she should pressure me to engage with her. She should use manipulation if necessary, I don’t see a problem with it if it helps resolve her issue, even if that means gaslighting.

9. This is just a preference, but I’ve often found myself drawn to Middle Eastern women, I find their personalities attractive.

My friends think I’m delusional, but I told them I can afford both financially and emotionally to sustain the kind of relationship I want.

Are this preference unrealistic, Should I be concerned?

Note: I can not disclose my age but I am under 23.