Do you indulge in your findom fantasies all the time? Or do you prefer having a long term connection you spoil whenever you can?

I have been offensive for almost 5-6 years on and off now, and I realise that the intensity comes and goes, some months I am running up my CC bill, other months I am caught up with work and just buying my dommes small gifts whenever I can to be useful.

I have also come to-realise that my longest relations have come from dommes who have almost become a part of my life and these relationships have lasted over years. They have my number. We stay in touch, it evolved in a sort of unrequited simplicity friendship lol

They reach out when they wanna me, but it’s not always a full blown drain frenzy. It feels like a part of my life now.

Curious to know what experiences you have had as a sub or domme. 💗