parent with special need kids

Thanks for reading this. I am an asian parent (my spouse lives in a different state, and I live in NC). I live with a boy who was recently diagnosed with Level-2 autism. I have another boy (who lives with my husband and grandparents) who might also have a similar condition and will get the assessment soon. My second son will be joining me soon. I work full-time and make less money. What type of resources or parent groups can help me to navigate my life with some ease and provide guidance so my boys can become independent when they grow up?
Thanks for reading, and any recommendations or suggestions may help me.