If you're having vaginismus why don't try this??

I've always been confused about why would women who have vaginismus don't just use numb cream..instead of wasting alot of time.. I mean why don't the doctors suggest it there’s alot of girls who healed after using the numb cream and continued there life and pregnancy came And for those who say that it's not the solution for vaginismus Then I'm telling you I'm scared only for my first time...the next time..screw it Only to loose my virginity Plus: IT'S MY OPINION YOU'LL just tell me by yourself