28M- Confused about my Emotional Intimacy Capability

Relationships

So I have been very active sexually with different partners over the years and it has always been casual (except one) friendships. Always been really nice, comfortable and really great friendships even outside bed. But having said all that yes I do love nice intimacy and I am a very high libido person and intimacy is a very imp part of my life.

Now considering I am 28 now, might plan to get married in an year. I am really really confused and honestly scared that will I be able to feel that love for someone where people just go crazy. I know I would treat her well, care for her, be really good friends and do everything under my control to make her feel good

But I'm really confused on 2 aspects

  1. Will I ever be able to feel that strong love feeling that is comoletely unrelated to intimact or will my over exposure to sex and being with significant number of partners affect it and make me relate it to intimacy always.

  2. Having explored significantly sexually, it's quite possible that we might not have the best intimacy, will my too much sexual exposure affect my life.

I really appreciate your views and suggestions on this. Humble Request- Please don't wear your judgemental hats.

Posted Mar 6, 2026, 5:43 PM UTC

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