42 [M4F] CA/Anywhere Nerdy lifting man looking to fumble a baddie

NSFWM4F California

Alright, lets start with the obvious. You want to know what I look like, you can find that here. I'm 6' 4" and stacked like a brick house. The last pic is the most recent. More salacious pics upon request.

I was born in Orange County CA and escaped after 25 years to the cold Pacific Northwest. Portland and Seattle were way more comfortable for me than the sandy beaches and constant 70 - 80 degrees of the beach cities. But I find myself back down South again to take care of my elderly grandparents. I really grew in Seattle, my passions, my hobbies have been growing with me. I watch anime, run D&D, I paint, I have tattoos, I do photography, I dance at Goth clubs, I go to Ren Faires, I camp, I lift, and all manner of other crazy things. I'd really rather talk about it than type it all out in a r4r ad. I am the gentle, nerdy giant that some lucky lady is looking for. Though I'm only gentle until you want me not to be. ;)

Sex! I have it. I think of myself as fairly vanilla but I've been told that's not the case. I'm a Primal Dom and into freeuse, and quite a few more things beside. That being said my driving motivation is enthusiastic consent! It's not fun if my partner isn't very much having a good time too. I never mastered the attention to detail that ropes require, but if you're into being tied up we can figure something out. I am a man, and I'm extremely online, and that means I have the brainrot. So if a gooner degenerate who can pretend to be polite while walking around society isn't your thing that's cool. I'm just chill like that.

What I'm looking for is someone I can share my interests with, that I also find attractive. To be honest I'm it's what's conventionally attractive that catches my eye particularly the goth, alt, and e-girl baddies. You don't have to be perfect, imperfect is perfect! Chaos goblins are welcome. But I do insist on some level of personal fitness and hygiene because I insist on that for myself. My room might be a mess but it's all clean. ideally you like anime and video games and stuff. And think we should bring back the guillotine. If you're that gem in the rough living in the midwest and are desperate to launch from the empty countryside to get to the big city hit me up and maybe it'll work out. I'm also not looking for a permanent pen pal. It's going to be meat space eventually. Message me!

Posted Mar 6, 2026, 8:40 PM UTC · locked

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