I get angry when people cant figure out things on their own
26,F. This is weird cause i also at times will ask something that i could've theoretically google. Like i asked a friend to tell me more about their relocation abroad brcause im also interested. Or at times,i may have asked my supervisor something i could've theoretically google have found. But i generally do my own research. When i need a job, when i need to find out sth etc And only when ive done that,i ask further detail. But it seems as if everyone around me needs to get held by their hand to do anything. I get messages to help friends apply for jobs? I ask them "what you mean,help you with your cv?,they day no,can you make me a linkedin account? Or i tell friends about auditions i hear. They then try to work out a schedule where we go together and it doesnt work because of my job and their job. I say ok,lets go alone and talk after. "Oh no,can you take the dah off,how will i find the place?"(we have address and time on the email) "Can you help me with form?" "Can you sell my stuff from your profile?I dont know how to make it"(humm,google the site i told you and sign up?) "How do you go there?" (Google maps?) "Can you translate this text for me?" (Chatgpt?Google translate?) can you help me find a home?(rent sites?) I need a license,what do i do?(search driving tutors in your area and call?) Can you analyze my thesis results,im not good with that stuff?(oh and i was? It was our degree,i shed tears and figured it out)
Now,im not talking about helping along the way for clarifications,confusing parts or niche topics ,but people everywhere seem to cannot even start? Like do a first search? Sign up on a site? Sign up for a course? I really hate when ive spent hours mastering sth and someone wants it with no effort at all. Watch a toturial,do a search,do sth and then i will GLADLY help you.
Posted Mar 6, 2026, 8:41 PM UTC