51[M4F] The not-so-subtle difference between being dominant and being an asshole

I've lost count the number of women I've talked to on here who say that just about every guy who says they are dominant turn out to be just a jerk. Dominance is quite the opposite.

It's not about treating you like dirt. It's about treating you like you crave to be treated, and knowing when to push you and when to let up and let you find the things you desire but can't quite put your finger on.

Spankings aren't just punishment - they're also for encouragement, and to reward you for finding out something new about yourself, or about me.

You might need praise, or just to let go of having to make your own decisions. But that's a gift you give to me, and it's one to be respected.

Now, that doesn't mean that every submissive girl will click with me, nor I with her. But if you want to try chatting with a guy who enjoys praise, spankings, flirting, kissing, and a few other things you can discover, say hello.