38 [M4F] Sadist seeking to expand your boundaries in pain, physically and mentally.

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You've probably had wants, or even just curiosities, that are at times extreme. You want to be treated roughly, left with marks to show for it, and know your place without ambiguity. Perhaps you've fantasized about being treated like a toy, crying from how you've been handled, and yet begging for more. Maybe you've had partners that have tried this before, and either been too tepid, too sweet, or too inexperienced to really bring you the feeling you crave. Maybe you're curious to find just where your breaking point, physical or mental, really lies. This doesn't come with a lack of respect for you. After all, you want someone who can push to get the most out of you, and hold you as accountable as you deserve to be.

Am I right so far about you? Then let's continue.

I'm a Dom and sadist who's been in the lifestyle for about 15 years. I'm white, 5'9", and have an athletic body. I'm married, poly, and am looking for a play partner/FWB. Outside of kink, I read a lot, and am a bit of a music and fitness geek. My tastes, as with yours, tend to be on the intense side, but I've had enough experience at this point to know how to craft that in responsible ways. I'm happy to discuss just about every kink (don't be shy), but I gravitate towards anal, face fucking, impact, primal, w/s, and degradation. You can read some of my writing on my profile to get a first-hand sense of what I like. I don't have a strong inclination to a particular age range, body type, or background - I believe that compatibility facilitates attraction, not the other way around. Don't be intimidated if you're merely curious or interested in seeing what rough play can look like, as I've played with people of all experience levels.

Oh, and I hope you don't mind if we chat for a bit to see if we click before moving on to pics, meeting and all that. I'm as excited to go places as you are, but a little bit of foreplay sure makes things more fun, doesn't it?

Posted Mar 6, 2026, 8:43 PM UTC · locked

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